Don't let hatred dwell in your heart

Sunday, 3 February 2013



When I like someone, I let it be known to them unknowingly. I will follow them on all present social networks and those yet to be created. (NO, it is not stalking otherwise everyone following anyone they have no personal relationship with would be a stalker!) I do this because they have ideas similar to mine or ideas that make me want to know them.There's an essence of individuality they possess and I admire such fine qualities.

I like people who are not afraid to be themselves, it takes a lot of nerve to be yourself in a world that demands you to be worldelf.(your-self<world-self). I like to tell my friends about people I like despite their acquaintance status. I think, if you are able to see, acknowledge and talk about the good in others, it speaks volumes about the kind of person you are. Now more than ever we need to aggressively lift one another up instead of finding ways to tear each other apart. 

Let's be supportive of one another, and see the good in others. Honest to goodness hating on someone because your best bud hates that person is very high school like. See, that is the problem with us, we take on battles that shouldn't be ours.  If it isn't your battle do not fight it. This doesn't mean I have no loyalty to my friends because I do, I just think that if you don't have to get involved in something that does not concern you then don't. Do this for your sake and stay out of it. We are all mature enough to strike balances.

Many times the worst picture is painted of us and those who are brave enough to investigate these unchartered waterways find the real truth. I know we need to be cautious because there are wolves in fine wool sheep skin but sometimes people are slanderers. Geez, if you like someone like them and if you do not then stay away from them. Things really should be that easy just use your heart, gut and mind before getting a second opinion.

I would follow Beyonce on twitter, instagram, Facebook, and if possible, I would sit outside the gate to her mansion and work free hours as a lawn maintenance specialist just because I think she's awesome, and if she were to have a problem with that, then she'd clearly not understand how awesome I am, and I would therefore ask her to please excuse me as I relentlessly continue to like her. 

4 comments:

  1. hahahaha you know my heart....clearly, funny though those high school bu habits creep up on your sometimes and after you realize you just spoke ill of someone when you really shouldn't have, the damage has been done. Tragic i know but everyday is a new day to "see our lives" and try to be better :)

    ReplyDelete
  2. "Now more than
    ever we need to
    aggressively
    lift one
    another up
    instead of
    finding ways to
    tear each other
    apart."

    Nice piece! Hadn't forgotten about this. I can relate to what you're saying.
    LOL!! Do you want her address?

    ReplyDelete
  3. Jesse..where are you? thank you so much for always reading..
    and Inky...we cannot stop trying..right?

    ReplyDelete
  4. I like people that fight to be themselves, in a world that is constantly trying to shape us into what it wants us to be,, but the celebrity card plays me, is it who they are, or is the persona that the industry has created to sale them??

    ReplyDelete