My BuCkEt LiSt.

The meaning of Life has been made clear to all of us almost too often...One day we are alive, the next we are gone. "We are just like grass, and all our glory is like wild flowers. The grass withers and the flowers fall." We have been endowed with such a priceless gift, how you live your life is your business. I don't believe in YOLO because in my next life I am coming back as Gabrielle Bonheur Chanel aka Coco.


bucket list

1. Live in a foreign country for six months... that way I get to immerse myself in culture, act all touristy, meet new people and probably get citizenship in that country.


2. Live in New York City. I know it's so cliché but that's because it's an amazing city. I was 12 years old when I first visited New York. At that age we know very little about what we want, but New York defies age! I just want to get lost in the city, be part of the big crowd, buy cheap designer clothes and rent bags so I can write an autobiography on how I survived in the big apple. 


3. Dance Classes in pole dancing, Salsa, Ballroom, hip-hop, African fusion...I considered ballet but I think my bones are too old to stretch further than 60 degrees, at most!


4. Skinny Dippin'... as they say "bare as you dare"


5. Carnival in Rio de Janeiro. I have personal reservations on Brazil due to its depiction in movies but I love looking at Carnival Pictures and videos. The clothes, MUSIC, accessories and just being part of a large crowd where shoving of people is legally authorised. WHO WOULDN'T LOVE THAT?


6. Road trip with my closest friends to an Island...All paid vacation because I am a lover of all things good.


7. Fall in love and be cheesy and romantic. I actually do want to ride a tandem bike, slow dance in the moonlight, have the big fights, butterflies and rainbows... and in the background have John Legend's P.D.A (we just don't care). (Wonder what the title of this movie would be?)


8. Hello Ellen Degeneres...I think she is so cool, I've practiced her dance moves and am sure WHEN we meet, she's going to love me.


9. My friend introduced me to Andrea Bocelli's 'the prayer' song, and I fell in love with his music. When Celine Dion introduced him, she made it sound like he had died, turns out he was going to sing via satellite. Oh well, I'd love to meet him. He'll sing on my children's baptism. Please stay alive.


10. Meet the F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Cast... 


11. Mariah Carey to sing at my wedding (if I have one)


12. Become a better public speaker... I fear I might talk more than I usually do.


13. Get into Harvard...make friends with someone who has gone to Harvard.


14. Have a street named after me..NO.. have a town named after me.:-)


15. Make a difference in one person's life every week.


16. Live in a 5 star Hotel for at least one year. I love everything hotels,the white sheets and towels, the 
general fresh smell, people are so cordial.


17. Get my sister to write and publish a cook book. She is turning 14 years of age. She is such an amazing cook.


18. EXPERIENCE BLISS


19. Visit India because everyone visits India. *light bulb moment* I can take part in conversations whose focus is on India, not only will I sound smart, I'll be looked at as the adventurous type! 


20. Get the courage to confront people... I'm so timid, I don't like to upset anyone so I do what the reasonable coward does...I take the blame like Akon. 


I have over 50 things to get done on my bucket list, 30 of them are highly unrealistic so I will probably leave it in a will and maliciously impose it on someone. :-D

...THEY...

They told me I would never grow tall...(fine they were right),
They told you that you would never shine...You're a star.
They told you that you would never have great things, your darling little heart worked so hard, and you got ten thousand on ten thousand great things.
They say that everyone says you're like your father, mother, sister, brother, aunts, uncles and your whole clan...You're nothing like that. You are your own person with a family to belong to BUT you are unique (You-nique)
They said sadness would be your daily companion, your only friend...you have the loudest laugh, the kind that's contagious, the kind that brings tears to your eyes.
Who are THEY? This group of elusive people who think they know so much about you? They are inexistent! They will only take the reins if you let them. Until we can find these "they" people, we are not going to pay attention to negative remarks, we are going to be the people we were created to be. People who are ready to run the world! (Thank you Bey for that!)

For my SOULIE

There's a darkness that lurks around when the first morning light appears...trying to ignore it, you put a red ribbon in your hair with a yellow cardigan and pink scarf to just force the day into mellow-day. Happy songs not so happy but you still put up a good fight. When you're about to have the last punch...when you're about to step on the darkness, when you've just let out a little laugh...IT turns around and puts you down. IT kills the little joy you had...and even when you try to sing "this little light of mine, am gonna let it shine...let it shine, let it shine, let....." *voice fades and the light's out* 


Today has been a dark day for one of my most favourite people in the whole world, and it breaks my heart, my whole being inside is dead because her heart is open and it's bleeding...there's nothing I can do to make it all stop...I pray more than a thousand prayers that God's strength will be enough because we are all fragile but they are more fragile in this moment. 
We sleep and hope for better days, for days when you shall smile upon them, when you appear through rainbows, when you put your arms around them and whisper..."it is well", we pray for that peace that transcends all understanding, the kind that will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. 

LIVING FULLY IN TODAY.

Good morning BEAUTIFUL people!!!!!!!
I am back and I am all yours from now on...Exams are done and dusted for most of us and we can only pray and hope for the best results. :-) I hope everyone reading this is fine in all senses of the word 'fine'.

Seize the day


I woke up tempted to just slack the day away, remain in my bed, turn and toss in my bed because I can BUT something within me could not let me. I found myself awake at 8 am and I was so dissatisfied, I am done with exams, I deserve to sleep and wake up at 6pm and sleep some more because the past few days have been characterised with insomnia and dreams filled with law articles. If sleeping beauty's sleep was justified, then so is mine!(my sleep wasn't as shallow as hers anyway!)

Regardless of psychotic discussion with self, I woke up and decided to do something with my day. To go out of my bedroom and to flourish in the most fabulous way I know. I urge you to live life to the fullest and get the most out of every individual day of the week. I know there's so much literature on that topic and sometimes we get cynical, questioning its worthiness. The only way to prove its worth is by trying it out! You will go to bed a much happier person.

Few things we can all do.


1. Smile at anyone...people will think you're beautiful even when you feel like a dirty duck.
2. Do something totally selfless...it can be anything e.g. talk to a street person
3. LEAVE YOUR BED
4. Say 'thank you' to someone close to you
5. COMB YOUR HAIR (sometimes that's all you need to do)

I am going to seize today, I am up and ready to take on the day with my awesomeness in Christ Jesus. The sun won't shine brighter than you and I today.
xxx